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Author: Wim Dupont <wim@wimdupont.com>
Date:   Sun, 20 Mar 2022 09:47:55 -0400

added Knowledge, ignorance, and ego

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diff --git a/pages/blog/Knowledge, ignorance, and ego.adoc b/pages/blog/Knowledge, ignorance, and ego.adoc @@ -0,0 +1,54 @@ +*"Real knowledge is to know the extent of one's ignorance." - Confucius* + +During everyday conversation or discussion, instead of learning new viewpoints, +we are oftentimes thinking of responses or counterproposals while the other is +still speaking. We are too busy trying to convince or persuade the other, or, +whilst talking, too busy trying to flatter ourselves that we're not having a +conversation at all. Both conversationalists are busy with their own thoughts. +Because of this, we are essentially neglecting the opportunity to gain knowledge +by trying to come off as knowledgeable, or even worse, by trying to be "right". + +Being open-minded is a popular and positive attitude that helps in conversation. +It attempts to set aside your own beliefs and ego to, instead, be fully engaged +in the other's ideas and perspectives. However, we seldom think of ourselves as +ignorant, and are often fast to believe to be adept in the practice of +open-mindedness. But, when we reflect on all of our current beliefs, are we +truly always considering counterarguments? We probably can think of several +occasions where we have let our open-mindedness slip. This, like many things in +life, is not something we will ever fully master, it is rather an attitude that +requires continuous attention and practice. + +*"When the student is ready, the teacher appears."* + +All of this is closely related to one's ego. Ego is something that is always +lurking nearby, and it can easily alter your attitude if you're unaware of its +presence. The wisest thing you can do is to set your pride aside and be open, as +well as make yourself vulnerable, to new ideas. We will always remain students, +so be mindful of your ego, be mindful of your ignorance, and try to learn from +every opportunity. + +We should, however, not blindly believe everything one says, not even when the +other is more knowledgeable on the subject. Their wisdom is no proof of their +truthfulness. Also, we should not be ignorant, and, instead, apply this +skepticism to ourselves as well. Be careful with the information that is given, +but also revise the knowledge you've accepted to be true. Don't be afraid to +question your beliefs. + +You will never be completely certain on most of your opinions, but this is not +really needed. You can still remain decisive without certainty. Having set +principles or values to live by is extremely helpful in this regard. But, know +that being decisive does not mean that you have the all right answers nor have +full knowledge of the matter. + +Having said all of this, let's put into practice the following quote: + +*“Waste no more time arguing about what a good man should be. Be one.” - Marcus +Aurelius* + +Just as buying books does not make you a reader, and getting a promotion does +not make you a manager, gained knowledge does not make you a scholar. You're +still the same you, the purchase, promotion, or wisdom did not change you. You +still have to put in the work. The best way to convince yourself or others of +who or what you are is not by talk, but by action. If you wish to inspire +people, do not talk about how productive you are, do not talk about how wise you +are, let them see it for themselves.